A Nudge From God?

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Oh how I wish God’s message was clearer.

We put our house on the market last fall. For me, 9 1/2 months is a long time. Our three previous houses (we moved a lot) sold in less than three months.

This cute little 4-bed/2-bath bungalow is 15 years old, in a perfect location for anyone who works downtown and doesn’t want to pay for expensive parking. Walking distance to grocery store, pharmacy, novelty shop, two gyms, and three schools. Nicely tucked away behind the main street means you’re not in a high traffic area.

Wheelchair accessible, it has wide doors and hallway. A Dr. had it built for his mom who had mobility issues. This house can be used as an income property. The only thing missing downstairs is a kitchen. The craft/hobby room can easily be converted.

While it is priced to sell and we’ve had a lot of great feedback from prospect buyers, we only received one offer.  What’s the problem?

The apartments.

Behind our backyard are three 3-storey apartment buildings. Most who looked at our house see that as a lack of privacy. What they don’t know is how quiet it is in this neighbourhood. The apartments owners are strict about noise levels. There are never any parties or rowdiness.

I was ecstatic when the first offer came two weeks ago. We were told they were pre-approved, so we started packing and sold items we don’t use anymore. We put a conditional offer on one we’d absolutely loved. It was accepted.

Then things fell apart.

Our agent called to say our buyer had to pull out of the deal. Talk about disappointment.

In the same breath, he said the one we’d put an offer on sold when the owner received a straight offer and accepted it.  

Now what? One room is full of boxes. We have to move them to the storage room in the basement to make the house presentable when the next showing request comes. 

We prayed about it and decided if not sold by June 30, it’s going off the market. Not knowing where God is leading us with this, we lay our fleece down (read Judges 6 if you’re not sure what that means), and pray it sells by the end of the month. The disappointment has worn off (mostly) and we’ve accepted that maybe God is saying now’s not the time to move. Hubby and I want to retire closer to the country, but if God says stay who are we to argue? Yet…

Today, after telling a few people we’re taking it off the market in two weeks, our agent called to say the one we wanted to buy is back on the market.

It feels good knowing we can put another offer on it, conditional on the sale of ours.

Is God saying be patient? Is He saying I’ll bring the buyer in My time, not yours, which may not necessarily be by June 30? Oh how I wish His message was clearer.

Time will tell.

Friday blessings: Blessed. Beyond. Belief.

What prompts me to write this morning is a scene that happened outside my window. I can’t describe how blessed I feel right now. I have no words strong enough to thank God for the people He’s put in my life.

We have a two-car driveway, but between my husband’s truck, our son’s, and our tenant’s car, there’s no room for all three vehicles. A neighbour told us to park at his place since he doesn’t drive. So my husband parks down the street. In exchange we shovel for him.

A Nor’easter swept across the area yesterday afternoon. We received approximately 6-8 inches of snow, but wind caused a lot of drifts and made it look more like 12. The mild temperatures brought hail and very wet snow which, in the end, was very heavy.

Rather than wait until the storm’s over, we always shovel more than once. I went out around 4 pm. It was still coming down heavy. We went back out around 7, and then again at 9 after the plow went by and closed off the entrance. At 5:45 this morning, hubby went out to reopen the entrance, and did a quick pass between the truck and our tenant’s car before he headed off to work.

Fast forward a couple of hours. I looked out my front window. A different neighbour was struggling to push his snow blower up the hill. Despite his severe arthritis, that sweet man often plows other neighbours’ driveways. He once told me he suffers for the next few days, but it doesn’t matter to him. He feels led to do this.

Sitting at the kitchen table, my son heard me say, “Awww… did his blower break down? I wonder what happened.” He jumped up and joined me at the window. Before I could say much more, he turned and headed out the door. The scene that unfolded made my heart swell and want to explode with thankfulness for my son as well as for our kind-hearted neighbour.

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Together they pushed the blower uphill to his driveway. I watched as he trudged through thick snow to his shed and returned with a container. I soon found out he’d run out of gas. Where? The driveway where my husband parks. Of all places! He didn’t have to do that.terrence and arthur mar 23 18 (2)

After he refilled, he went back out to plow. As if he hadn’t done enough, he stopped and widened ours too before he went home.

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Neighbours helping neighbours. Isn’t that what we’re here for? To be there for each  other? Always. In the good times. In the bad.

God knew what He was doing when He led us to this area. Little did I know the impact the people around here would have on us. Directly across the street, another set of neighbours have blessed us time and time again. I’ve been working for them since last July (cook/childcare). They’ve been absolutely amazing, and have always been there for me. I’m so thankful. More than that. I’m blessed beyond belief.

Count your blessings this morning. Then pause, and thank God.

Ready For a Book Signing?

My First book Signing

Welcome back! How’s the weather out your way? Nice and sunny here. More people are out and about at the markets, libraries, and community fairs. It’s the time of year when you’ll see more book signings between now and the fall. At least, in these parts, where winter temperatures can drop below -30C (-22F), there are less signings.

So you’ve called the bookstore or library down the street, and asked if they would host your next book signing. They said Yes! Congratulations. 

How do you prepare? What things are a must? Which ones are a no-no?

I hope these helpful tips will make things easier for you.

  1. Spread the word to your friends, neighbours, and on social media.
  2. If the store owner or library will allow, put an 8×10 poster in the window of the venue or somewhere inside. I put mine up a week in advance. A small ad in their newsletter, or in the local events section of the newspaper helps too.
  3. Carry a good float with you. You don’t want to run short. 
  4. Get the Square or PayPal device for processing payments. Not everyone carries cash anymore. Download the app to your cell phone, and plug the device into the headphone jack. It’s that easy to use.  
  5. Round the price to the nearest dollar. It’ll save you from having to carry a lot of change.
  6. If your book is, let’s say, $15.00, make sure you have plenty of fives. Many ATMs only dispense twenties. There’s nothing more embarrassing than telling a paying customer you don’t have change. 
  7. Are you promoting more than one book? Offer a deal if they buy the set. 
  8. For income tax purposes, write a receipt for every sale, even if the buyer doesn’t want one.
  9. Make your book table attractive. A dish of wrapped candies acts as a magnet, and gives you a chance to talk to those with a sweet tooth. Acquire a small stand (available in many dollar stores) to prop up your books.
  10. Offer a business card, bookmark, or book plate to those who walk by your table. My book plates bear the back blurb of my novel. My cards have both titles. 
  11. Turn off or mute your cell phone if you’re not using it with the Square or PayPal device. Talk to your potential readers. If you want them to be interested in your book, show your interest in them. Don’t forget to smile.
  12. Bring nothing messy to the table. You don’t want to spill liquids on your books, or leave sticky fingerprints on them. I keep my water bottle on the floor. 
  13. Don’t forget your favourite pen and a notebook. Some may come, not knowing there was a book signing. They may want to leave their contact information. 
  14. Best of all, have fun. Get to know your readers, and tell them about your  novel. They’ll probably want to know about you as well. Go ahead and tell them! 

That’s what a book signing is all about. How do you prepare? Leave a comment below.


My Main Goal is to Write Well ~ Joan Hall Hovey

Today is day 31. The last day of the blog challenge I started on January 26. I want to end with a bang. With words a lovely and wonderful Canadian author said to me.

My husband and I took a drive about two hours out of town yesterday afternoon. We stopped in to visit a very dear writer friend. In New Brunswick, Joan Hall Hovey is known as the queen of suspense. A title worn by American author, Mary Higgins Clark. Both Joan and I have read many of Clark’s books. In fact, she was one of my first inspirations.

Joan and I talked about a variety of topics… what story I was working on… conferences… editors and publishers… Amazon and Kobo. The topic suddenly veered to what we want to gain out of our writing. What we expect. What we want to achieve.

Some writers want fame. Others want fortune. Many hope to see their titles on the bestsellers’ list. Others want their books to become the next blockbuster movie. A mere few however, simply want to spread their message, bring joy into someone’s heart, and put a smile on their face. 

Earlier in this challenge I blogged about why I write suspense,using recurring themes and topics (deafness and faith) into my stories. I also talked about why I write. It is a God-given desire, and something I absolutely love to do.

But as I listened to Joan, she said something that made me realize I write for something much more important. She said she wanted a number of things to do with her writing, but,

“my main goal is to write well.

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I can write all sorts of stories, no matter the genre, which to me is so much fun. But if I don’t write well, can I actually hope people will buy and read my books? Can I expect those who do to spread a good word? Whether good or bad, word of mouth goes a long way. 

Joan’s beautiful words of wisdom stuck with me. Now I know what I want. It is to write well

How do we do that? How do we learn to write well? The answer lies in many of the posts I’ve written over the past 31 days.

  • Go to conferences to improve and advance your skills.
  • Attend local classes and workshops to help you with the different aspects of the craft, whether it deals with editing, publishing, marketing, etc.
  • Hire an editor or at the very least, ask beta-readers to proofread your manuscript before you self-publish it.  

I have a deep desire to write, one I know God’s placed on my heart. I don’t just want to write good stories, though. I want to write well. Thanks, Joan. You’re a gem.

I end this 31-day blog challenge with a link toJoan’s website. A writer of Thriller, Suspense, Paranormal, and Mystery. Read about her. Check out her books. Find writing wisdom in her blog. Whatever you do, learn to write well.

What’s your passion? What do you want to achieve with your stories? Leave a comment below. 

He Said / She Said?


Creating great dialogue can be quite tricky. Here are a few helpful tips.  

Voice and vocabulary: Your characters are different. Tall. Short. Blonde. Brunette. Give each one his or her own voice, expressions, and vocabulary. If they all looked and reacted the same, and used Rats! or Oh man!, wouldn’t your story be boring?

Make it Realistic: Next time you’re in a coffee shop, or walk through the food court at the mall, have a seat and listen to the conversations around you (it’s not your fault they’re sitting close enough for you to hear). It’s not what they say that’s important, it’s how they say it. Pay attention to the tone, pitch, and expressions.

Focus: When you write dialogue, stay focused on the topic. Don’t veer somewhere out to left field, or you may end up with someone asking what in the world it had to do with the story. 

Tags: Unless there are more than two people in the conversation, and you need to clarify which one’s talking, don’t use tags too often. It gets annoying to read he said / she said at the end of every sentence. When it’s necessary, vary it up. He added / she exclaimed / he asked / she replied. If you haven’t bought one already, I strongly recommend the Flip Dictionary to help with replacement words. 

Don’t Be Too Formal: You want it to flow well, naturally, you don’t want the whole book to sound like the narrative. My next point explains this better.

Complete Sentences? Not in dialogue. At least not all the time. And don’t over use your character’s names. Why use too many words when you can say the same thing with fewer of them? In most cases, less is better. How often do you say to a close friend, “Hello, Jane. How have you been?” “I am fine, thank you.” Isn’t it more like “Hey! How’s it going?” “Fine, thanks.” Concise. Your characters’ conversation should be like that. Of course, you need to keep in mind who’s speaking and to whom. You wouldn’t use the same wording with someone in a position of authority.

Show Actions: Your characters are not robots. They can do different things while talking. Show their action, no matter how insignificant it may seem. 

Jane folded her hands on the kitchen table. “We need to talk.”
Brent nodded, straddling the chair across from her. “What’s up?”

“I’m pregnant.”
He sighed, rubbing his hand over his stubby chin. Unable to maintain eye contact, he glanced toward the window, shaking his head.

Show, don’t tell. Without saying it, I showed my reader Brent’s not happy with the news. 

Create Conflict: Make it interesting. You don’t want to bore your readers to death or they’ll never read the sequel of your 3-book series.

Use Hooks: Yes, you can do that in dialogue. Give part of the information, but save some for later. You want your readers to come back when they’ve had to set the book down before the end. 

What are your tips and tricks for creating great dialogue? 

What’s your excuse?


Day 29 of 31. Woohoo! I’m almost done this daily blog challenge. I admit, it’s been fun and very…uh…challenging, to say the least. Finding time most days was easy, but there are a few instances when it seemed time got away and I didn’t get to write until late in the evening. But no matter what, I wrote every single day since January 26. Why? Because I wanted to. Finding a topic, however, every single day, was quite a task in itself.

During my morning devotions, I read a quote that prompted an idea for today’s blog post.

He that is good for making excuses
is seldom good for anything else.
~ Benjamin Franklin


Today, I want to talk about excuses. We all have them. We all make them. I’m sure we all believe they’re legitimate too.  

I can’t write because I don’t have time… I can’t afford to take creative writing classes… my family needs my attention… I work a full-time job outside the home…

Sounds familiar?

Hey, I’ve been there. I wrote my first novel — with pen and paper, between phone calls as a customer service rep. I then had to transcribe everything to my computer when I came home after my shift. Yet, I had over 50,000 words in 30 days. I know what it’s like to scramble. 

It’s easy to find all sorts of reasons why we can’t write. This thought-pattern stops us from moving forward. Instead of making excuses, shouldn’t we look for a way to get results?

On January 28, I wrote about making things happen. Finding time to write is not always easy, but personally, I think a lot of it is excuses. I’m not talking about setting your priorities aside. Precious time with family should always be number 1. And yes, there are meals to prepare, a house to clean, laundry to do. I get that. 


What I’m talking about are things like some TV show(s) you say you have to watch every night. If you really want to write, can’t you use that hour or two (or more) to do so? (I say YOU because I rarely ever watch TV anymore. I can’t seem to find anything suitable for my liking). What about the computer where we (I’m guilty) spend way too much time scrolling through different social media apps? 

Pretend there’s a timer on those apps, and it starts the moment we opened it. A big number flashes on our screen when we X out. What does your timer say? Don’t get me wrong, I’m NOT saying those apps are bad. They keep us connected with our family and friends (and many people we don’t even know who sent a friend request for whatever reason). 

Isn’t it time we get rid of excuses, and add writing to our to-do list? I did that some time ago. Some say I spend too much time on the computer. I tell them I prefer to do research for my next novel, or blog post. 

What’s your excuse? Please leave a comment below. 

Thursday’s Quote


“Beware when the great God lets loose a thinker on this planet.”
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

I see myself as a thinker (I ponder and ask why about everything… my youngest often thanks me for passing it down). I also see myself as a writer. It’s become the joy of my heart. Now that my editor and I are working on my third novel, the first line for my next one has been screaming at me to start a new story for well over a week.

To stay with the above quote by Emerson, I want to answer the following question:

“Why do I write?” 

Because God put me on this earth, and gave me that desire. Although I’ve penned numerous poems and short stories since I was a child, I never took writing seriously until 2009. It was one of those ah ha moments.

Mom was a newspaper reporter. As a teen, I often said that, like her, I’d write someday. Back then, little did I know writing fiction novels of suspense would be the direction I’d follow. To say I like it is a major understatement. I love writing.

“I write because I have a burden in my heart to reach people.” 

Mom often told me that when I was in grade school, I used to come home crying. She’d look me over from head to toe to see where I was hurt. My pain wasn’t visible, however. It was in my heart. Whether it was for the boy who was sick and didn’t make it to school that day, or for the girl who fell and scraped her knee. Things are no different today. Even when I don’t know the reason for their tears, seeing someone cry chokes me up. Especially when it comes to a child (Movie theatre? Give me loads of tissues).

My stories are purely a figment of my imagination. I choose a real life situation, and answer the question,

“What would happen if…”

The suspense and drama I describe in my books isn’t something that necessarily happened to me, but it can ring true to many readers who are going through a similar situation. My hope is to show them how to see the positive in the negative, something I strongly believe in. I want my readers to do the same, to look around and see that in most cases, there’s someone worse off than they are. On days when I’m going through a hard time, regardless of the situation, I like to be able to say,

“Today is going to be a great day, no matter what.” 

While the above may be good reasons, one is much more important to me.

To share the most amazing gift God’s given me. The Love of Jesus. I want to bring my readers closer to Him, by weaving my faith through the pages in a way that I pray will help them understand, and come to faith in Him.

Why do you write? Please share and leave a comment below.


Writing Pet Peeves?


We all have writing pet peeves. For some, it is a word they dislike. Others, it’s an expression or poor grammar. When I say ‘word’, I don’t mean weasel words, but rather those we hear all the time in speech, the ones that make us cringe. Sadly, some of those end up finding in our writing. Words like REALLY, and LIKE.

There’s also the misspelling of certain words. Such as:
Your vs. you’re,
There vs. their vs. they’re.
Better yet, how about
Site, cite, and sight?
Lead vs. led
Affect vs, effect,
Assure, vs. insure vs. ensure.
Its vs. it’s.
To vs. too
You’re vs. your

Having learned English as a second language, there are times I can’t wrap my head around some of those, and yes I have to stop and think…is it this one, or that one? 

I could keep going, but it’ll double my word count and I want to stay close to 500. 

Some people tend to use the ‘lazy’ route when texting or sending a quick message on social media. That’s their prerogative, but it creates a lazy habit that sometimes can end up in their writing.

 There’s also the misuse of apostrophe’s in plural word’s. Yes I did that on purpose. Both times. Plural don’t need an apostrophe. The possessive does.

One that drives many people up the wall is the use of at to end a sentence. “Where are you at?” Grammatically, that’s incorrect. Where are you? Ah, that sounds better. 

The above are all pet peeves many writers hate to see, specially in novels. Some set my teeth on edge when I find them in writing. My biggest peeves–yes, plural, I have two–are not words or expressions. They’re not a mere typo or grammatical error.

The first one is: 

Some people say writing is NOT work. As someone who is semi-retired (I work three hours a day cooking for my neighbours and taking care of their daughter when she gets out of school), I spend a good part of  the rest of my day writing. I have poured many hours into my novels, attending classes, conferences, and workshops to learn the tricks of the trade, and applying them to my writing. I’m constantly striving to learn more and improve. Whether you’re traditionally or self-published, writing is work. Correction, writing is hard work. I’ve always said:

Writing is hard.
Editing is harder.
Marketing is the hardest. 

A friend of mine works as a freelance writer. She’s up at 4:00 a.m. on a daily basis, bent over her keyboard, writing her columns. People have said to her, “What do you do with your time since you’re not working?” When she tells them she is working as a freelance writer, they reply “Really? Oh so, what do you do with all your time?” Grrrr…

What’s my worst and biggest pet peeve related to writing? I know all of you writers out there will agree with me on this one. Drum roll please… 

People who believe ALL writers are rich. I chuckle as I write. 

What’s your writing pet peeve? 


Recurring themes


While some people prefer to write about different topics in each of their stories, others, such as myself, like to have a similar theme, even though the stories are stand alone, and not part of a series. 

That’s what it’s like to do with my novels. There are two recurring themes in all of mine. 


Faith (and/or lack thereof)

Unlike my father who loved math and everything else that has to do with numbers, I’ve always loved learning new languages. By the time I graduated from university, I had learned six. I’ve never been fluent in all of them, but I am in three: French (native tongue), English, and ASL. I never had much of a chance to practice Spanish, Biblical Hebrew, or Shona (Zimbabwe dialect) so I lost more of what I’d learned.

I started interpreting in 1994 to a group of deaf people in our church. They became very dear to me, and I learned a great deal from them. It’s one of the many reasons I include them in my stories. As much as I like to educate my readers who are not familiar with the deaf community, I want to dispel the myths surrounding them.

Like the fact that they can’t drive because they can’t hear. Of course they can drive. I’m guilty of thinking such a thing. I remember asking one deaf man to excuse my ignorance but how could he drive if he couldn’t hear the sirens of emergency vehicles. His reply came with a big warm smile, “I can’t hear, but I can see them.” It was one of the first lessons I ever learned. Many more were to come. 

Each of my novels include at least one or two deaf characters and an interpreter. They are people for whom I have the utmost respect. Using our hands to be the ears for those people is not always an easy job, but it’s quite rewarding.  


The other recurring theme in my stories is that of faith. At least one character has none, or has walked away from their Maker. Someone attempts to lead them to or back. Whether or not they return, that’s for me to know and you to find out in my novels. 

Why do I write about God, faith, and eternal salvation? Because I believe it in. It’s my way–my hope–to reach the lost for the cause of Jesus Christ. We all have hard times and troubles at some point in our lives. What we all need to know, though, is that we’re never alone. God is with us every step of the way. Whether we believe in Him or not, He’s there. All we need to do, specially when we’re down, is look up, open our heart to Him, and welcome Him.

There’s one more thing I like to do. The title of the first three are similar and one of the main characters’ name in each one begins with the next letter of the alphabet. Stella’s Plea, (Alexis), Emma’s Prayer (Braden), Charlie’s Plight (Charlie). 

Do you use recurring themes in your stories. Why or why not? Leave a comment below.

What books are you reading?


This is going to be another writing sprint. Monday morning, February 19. It is actually a holiday across Canada. They called it Family Day. It’s the first year that we, here in New Brunswick, have it as a statutory holiday. Most everything is closed, except for gas stations and convenience stores.

I have less than an hour to write my 500-word post because a friend of mine is coming over at 10 o’clock. Early bird that she is, I can almost guarantee she’ll be here before that. So… here we go:

I decided to do a fun and do a promotional post today. Sort of. 

What books are you reading? Are you one of those people who read certain stories only at certain times of year? Our tenant is what I call a ‘season reader’. She loves cozy beach stories but will not read them at any other time of year than in the summer. The same goes for Christmas novels. For her, those are strictly December-only reads. What about you?

To me, it doesn’t matter. I read anything, at any time of year. I’ve read Christmas stories well past December, just like I’ve picked up a cozy beach read in the dead of winter. Hey it keeps me feeling warm inside.

Recently, I started a Speculative Fiction by Yvonne AndersonThe Story in The StarsI can’t tell you much about it because I’m only on page 31, but to pique the interest of all the spec-fic fans out there, I can give you the book’s back blurb. This book was an American Christian Fiction Writers Carol (ACFW) Award Finalist in 2012. (Way to go, Yvonne). 


Dassa skates toward the palace in completion of her Third Quest, unaware the Karkar Plague has returned to ravage Gannah.

On a medical starship not far away, Dr. Pik is ordered to find a cure for the plague – an unlikely assignment, given his inbred hatred of the whole Gannahan race. Duty trumps, prejudice, however, and he succeeds… but that’s just the beginning of the story.

Dassa and Pik survive attach by space pirates, food poisoning, and a place crash in the savage Gannahan wilderness. The hardest part, though, is enduring one another’s company. 

The Creator who wrote the story of redemption in the stars has commanded her to share it with her reluctant savior. That’s not all He requires of her, but the rest is unthinkable. 

Fly through the Gateway to Gannah for some serious sci-fi adventure!

This is book one of four. 

Book 2: Words in the Wind

Book 3: Ransom in the Rock

Bok 4: The last Toqeph

Someone once said:

The best way to thank an author is to write a review

It’s so true. We depend on reviews. That’s how many readers determine whether or not they will read certain books.  

What book are you reading right now? Are you enjoying it? This Family Day, go ahead and pick up a good book. When you’re done, please do the author a favour. Go to their website or on Amazon and thank them. Write a review.